i really felt so bad this previous days because of what happened in school.. i always think it’s unfair, efforts wasted! but i dont know if im at the right track or not.. i just want them to realize what they have to realize and i just want them to understand me.. we’re not getting any younger so we have to be responsible enough to the task we have to do, we have to grow and this is for our own good.. but im really confused and yes, guilty for blaming others for the things i never expected to happen! i am asking God to just enlighten my confused mind..

anyway, now im sick, my body is weak, body temperature is 38 degree celsius, and i dont feel like doing any task, i just want to sleep and rest after attending the mass early in the morning celebrating the feast of the immaculate conception.. but it is so weird because even though im illed, just this evening, i just woke up in bed, immediately turned on the computer and browse the net.. my homepage is my blogsome account so basically i immediately saw new shoutouts in my shoutbox while scrolling the page.. i click the link to return a view to those who viewed my blog, and there i found out this certain spiritual blog authored by bo sanchez and read his posts.. i think God directed me to bo’s blog to be enlighten, and yes i am with his post entitled "Take Charge!"..

And this is how his post goes..

Take Charge!
How To Stop Blame And Find Your Personal Power

These next three stories will make your jaw drop to the floor in total bewilderment that these absurdities actually happen in real life. 

Story #1:

Mrs. Kathleen Robertson of Texas was in a furniture store.  She tripped over a toddler and broke her ankle.   So she sued the store owners.  The store owners were surprised because the misbehaving toddler was Mrs. Kathleen Robertson’s own son!  But she won the case and was awarded $80,000.

Story #2:

Carl Truman of Los Angeles was stealing hubcaps from a Honda Accord.  He didn’t realize that the driver was inside the car.  As the driver drove off, Carl’s hand was caught under the tire.  What did the thief do?  He sued the owner.  The court awarded him $74,000 plus medical expenses.

Story #3:

Terrence Dickson of Pennsylvania robbed a house and was leaving through the garage.  But he found himself locked in the garage.  Because the family was on vacation, he was trapped there for 8 days, living on a case of Pepsi and dog food.  Yes, Terrence sued for the undue mental anguish he experienced during those 8 days.  And would you believe?  He won the case to the tune of $500,000.

Absurd?

All these true-to-life stories tell you one thing: People like to blame others for their own mess.  And society supports this bankrupt pattern of thinking! 

My Sixty-Four Million Dollar Question

Are you blaming others or are you taking charge?

Here’s what I learned in life: You can’t do both.

          I urge you—stop complaining about your mess and make things happen!

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